已婚未育，大龄上岸，回馈论坛
<section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; widows: 1; text-align: right; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); font-family: 微软雅黑; letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">创作楼主<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">/</span></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(120, 172, 254); box-sizing: border-box !important;">苏苏sasa</span></span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; widows: 1; text-align: right; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">楼主已上岸，想回馈论坛，原本想洋洋洒洒写写考公这一路的挣扎与奋斗，但真到尘埃落定，千言万语涌上来后，反而觉得也没什么好讲的了，“却道天凉好个秋”。此刻，南国正值秋天，没有了酷暑，没有了焦躁，迎来的是秋高气爽和满满的收获。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我想到哪里就讲到哪里，毕竟战线拖得太长，很多细节记不清，</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(120, 172, 254); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">想写心情、人生经历、学习经验、入编环节等等</strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">，所以思路比较跳脱，感谢坛友的包涵。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">先说说考公动机，毕竟这是源动力。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我是大龄，已经临近报考期限，今年的国考岗位和一些地方事业编岗位出来后，竟没有一个岗位可以报，瞬间很庆幸自己上岸了，否则眼看就没机会再考了。其实就算有岗位报，我这种大类的专业也是百人岗千人岗，杀出来除了靠实力，也是靠运气。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">多年前毕业时，没想过当公务员。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">那时候心比天高，一心想要成功和自由，认为只能下海拼搏才能实现。毕业时参加过一次国考，还是家里人各种逼迫下去的，报的是边检岗位，据说不能出国，所以我考得很不情愿，最终离入面成绩差了一分多。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">打那以后，就在企业里混，外企、民企、国企都待过，行业都换了三四个了。其实每份工作都做得不错，新行业新岗位适应很快，有时候不出几个月就当了小领导了，但就是心气儿太高了，觉得这也不赚钱，那也要出差，一路挑挑拣拣，跳来跳去。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所以履历比较杂乱，导致政审的时候很复杂，这是后话了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">现在想想钱多事少离家近的美差事哪有呢，我只是一直不甘心，不愿碌碌无为，一直像打井一样，眼看要出水就又换个地方重新开始了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所以我20-30岁这十年间，</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(120, 172, 254); box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实每天都生活在焦虑之中，害怕跑输同龄人，不甘自己落后，</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">就这样焦虑着焦虑着，结婚生子被提上日程，没办法像以前那么集中事业了，这反而让我更焦虑了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结婚生子是我人生的转折点吧。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">身为女性，女性求职真的会很受生育的影响。30岁那年我是已婚未育的状态，明显感觉求职难度高了好多倍，没办法像以前一样那么任性地跳槽甚至换行业了，以至于后来我都不敢说是已婚状态，已婚未育的人对于企业而言就像是未知炸弹一样，不知道什么时候就“爆炸”（休产假）了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">那时候，我真切感受到了无用武之地的恐慌，也目睹了很多宝妈被生育拖累，最后放弃事业的无奈。我感觉极度有心无力，好像被这个社会抛弃一样。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">曾经，“来了就是深圳人”，我那么喜爱的城市，只有那一年，让我感觉，我很有可能在这里站不住脚了，也只有那一年，让我真切感受到体制内的好。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">也就是那一年，我开始重拾书本，备战公务员了。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">失业在家备考的经历，太折磨人了，我就不多说了，所以在水里泡着的兄弟姐妹们，很懂你们，真的不容易。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我放弃了在企业磨炼的本领，转身投递了政府临时工的岗位，因为企业实在找不到工作了，有走投无路的感觉。更郁闷的是，</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(120, 172, 254); box-sizing: border-box !important;">政府临时工竞争也很激烈，我也是考了N次才入职的。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我现在想想，很感谢当临时工的经历。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实现在政府工作很忙，我当时经常加班，十一放假都没休息，中秋也是各种处理事情，和以前想的完全不一样，但是我还是很感激。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">人，只有在失去，才懂得珍惜。所以失业的我，格外珍惜这份工作机会。与此同时，激励自己抓住最后的机会，努力上岸。未完待续……</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p></p> 哈哈不错
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